What Nobody Tells You About the First Week with a Newborn

Article published at: 14 Jun 2026
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Bringing your baby home is one of life's most exciting moments. After months of anticipation, your little one is finally here. While you can find plenty of advice available about pregnancy and labour, many parents are surprised by what the first week home with baby is really like.

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What it's really like with a new baby

From sleepless nights and constant feeding to emotional highs and unexpected challenges, the first week with a newborn can feel overwhelming. The good news is that what you're experiencing is completely normal and all new parents around the world have gone through the same thing!

Here are some honest newborn tips that every new parent should know before bringing their baby home.

1. Newborns Sleep a Lot... But Not When You Want Them To

Many parents imagine that newborns spend most of their day sleeping peacefully. While babies typically sleep between 14 and 17 hours within a 24-hour period, they rarely sleep for long stretches at a time.

According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, newborns wake frequently because their tiny stomachs need regular feeding. This means you may find yourself awake every two to three hours around the clock.

One of the most valuable newborn tips is to sleep whenever you can and accept help from family and friends whenever it's offered. You can also explore How to Settle a Baby: Tips & Tools for New Parents for more helpful techniques to encourage calm and restful routines.

2. Feeding Can Be Harder Than Expected

Whether you choose breastfeeding, formula feeding or a combination of both, feeding your newborn often takes time and patience.

Newborn babies typically feed 8 -12 times every 24 hours during the first few weeks. Which honestly can be quite exhausting for a tired new parent. Learning feeding cues, finding comfortable positions and establishing routines can take time for both mum and baby.

Many parents feel pressure to get feeding "right" immediately, but remember that both you and your baby are learning together.

3. Nappy Changes Become a Full-Time Job

mum changing baby nappy on floor

You may be surprised by just how many nappies a newborn goes through each day.

Most newborns require between 8 and 12 nappy changes daily during the first weeks of life. Frequent changes help keep delicate skin healthy and reduce the risk of nappy rash.

A well-stocked changing station should include:

  • Newborn nappies
  • Baby wipes
  • Change mats
  • Spare clothing
  • A quality nappy cream

Many Australian parents swear by MooGoo Nappy Balm, which helps soothe and protect sensitive newborn skin from irritation and moisture.

4. You Will Worry About Everything

Is baby breathing normally?

Are they feeding enough?

Why are they making that noise?

Every new parent experiences moments of uncertainty. The first week home with baby often comes with countless questions and plenty of Googling at 3 am.

Remember that newborns make all sorts of sounds while sleeping, including grunts, squeaks and snuffles. If you have concerns, always contact your healthcare provider, but know that many newborn behaviours are completely normal.

5. Bath Time Is More About Bonding Than Cleaning

Baby laying down wearing a hooded koala towel

Many new parents are surprised to learn that newborns don't require daily baths.

In fact, several health organisations recommend limiting baths during the first weeks to help protect your baby's delicate skin.

Having a soft, absorbent baby hooded bath towel on hand can make bath time more comfortable and enjoyable. Gentle drying and plenty of cuddles afterwards often become a favourite bonding ritual for both parents and baby.

6. Recovery Doesn't End After Birth

One of the biggest surprises for many mothers is how much recovery continues after leaving hospital.

Whether you have experienced a vaginal birth or caesarean section, your body needs time to heal. Fatigue, discomfort, hormonal changes and emotional ups and downs are all common during the first week.

When a new baby arrives, it's natural for all attention to focus on the newest family member. However, one of the most important things nobody tells you about the first week with a newborn is that mum needs care too.

Between recovering from birth, adjusting to hormonal changes, feeding around the clock and coping with sleep deprivation, the early postpartum period can be physically and emotionally demanding.

New Mum Wellbeing Matters Too

According to Australia's PANDA (Perinatal Anxiety & Depression Australia), approximately 1 in 5 mothers experience anxiety or depression during pregnancy or the first year after birth. This highlights the importance of prioritising maternal wellbeing alongside newborn care.

Simple acts of self-care can make a meaningful difference during the first few weeks at home, including:

  • Accepting help from family and friends
  • Resting whenever possible
  • Staying hydrated and eating nourishing meals
  • Taking short walks when approved by your healthcare provider
  • Making time for a warm shower or bath
  • Connecting with supportive family members, friends or mother's groups
  • Seeking professional support if feelings of overwhelm persist

The Australian parenting experts at Raising Children Network explain that emotional ups and downs are common after birth, with many women experiencing the "baby blues" during the first week. They recommend reaching out for support if symptoms become overwhelming or continue beyond the early postpartum period.

New Mum Recovery Gift Hamper with Sukin skincare, calming tea, gourmet treats and nourishing body care.

Many families are now choosing thoughtful new mum wellness gifts that acknowledge the mother's recovery journey. While adorable baby clothes and toys are always appreciated, practical new mum gifts can provide comfort during a time when mums often put their own needs last.

A Mum Recovery Gift Hamper filled with nourishing treats, relaxation products and pampering essentials can be a thoughtful reminder for new mothers to slow down, rest and prioritise their wellbeing while adjusting to life with a newborn.

7. Visitors Can Be Exhausting

Everyone wants to meet the new arrival, but constant visitors can quickly become overwhelming.

Don't be afraid to set boundaries around visiting hours or ask guests to help with practical tasks such as preparing meals, folding laundry or walking the dog.

The first week home with baby should focus on recovery, bonding and adjusting to your new family dynamic.

8. The Emotional Rollercoaster Is Real

Many new parents experience intense emotions during the first week.

You may feel overwhelming love one moment and complete exhaustion the next. Hormonal changes, sleep deprivation and the huge adjustment to parenthood can all contribute to emotional ups and downs.

The "baby blues" affect up to 80% of new mothers and usually begin a few days after birth before gradually improving within two weeks.

If feelings of sadness, anxiety or overwhelm persist, it's important to seek professional support.

9. You Don't Need Every Baby Product

bubba blue jungle face washers on a table

Before birth, many parents spend months researching baby gear and nursery essentials.

The reality is that newborns need surprisingly few things during the first week:

  • A safe place to sleep
  • Nappies and wipes
  • Feeding supplies
  • Clothing and swaddles
  • Bath towel and washers
  • Skin care essentials
  • Plenty of love and cuddles

Everything else can be added as you learn what works best for your family.

10. It Gets Easier

Perhaps the most important thing nobody tells you about the first week with a newborn is that it won't always feel this hard.

Every day you'll become more confident in caring for your baby. Feeding becomes easier, routines begin to develop and you'll start recognising your baby's unique cues and personality.

The first week is a period of enormous adjustment, but it's also filled with unforgettable moments you'll treasure forever.

Thoughtful Gifts for the First Week Home

If you're looking for practical and meaningful new baby gifts, consider items that support both baby and parents during those important early days.

Popular choices include:

✔ Soft baby bath towels
✔ Cotton face cloths
✔ Nappies and wipes
✔ Gentle skincare products
✔ Organic baby clothing
✔ Baby comforters and blankets
✔ Keepsake gifts

The best gifts are often the ones that make life a little easier while helping families feel supported as they settle into life with their newest arrival.

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Realities of the First Week with a Newborn

The first week home with baby is beautiful, emotional, exhausting and unforgettable all at once. While no guide can prepare you for every moment, knowing what to expect can help ease some of the uncertainty.

Be kind to yourself, accept support when it's offered and remember that there is no such thing as a perfect parent. One day at a time is all that's needed.

Before you know it, you'll look back on those first precious days and wonder how your tiny newborn grew so quickly.

Helpful Resources for New Parents

For trusted advice on newborn care, sleep, feeding and maternal wellbeing, visit:

Raising Children Network: https://raisingchildren.net.au/newborns
American Academy of Pediatrics (HealthyChildren): https://www.healthychildren.org

These expert resources provide evidence-based guidance to help families navigate the first weeks and months with confidence.

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